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Why can't she be yours? It's because of the thing called Friend Zone. A lot of people think that the friend zone does not exist, but it does especially for men. We've all been there at one point of our lives, where you have the smartest and prettiest girl in the world, but she only sees you as her friend. You have done everything to please her and have been always there for her, and it still seems like she's not interested. It might be that you have known this girl for a long time; you have shown her your affection and how much you care for her, yet she still considers you as only one of her friends.
You know what? She's probably aware of your feelings towards her. But she's brushing it off, to "keep the friendship. It's not easy to be in the friend zone. It is frustrating, confusing, and can be very hurtful at times. Like, why can't she see that you are the one who's always there every time she cries over guys who don't treat her right? And all the time, she asks you "Why can't men be like you? But what you manage to give is just a faint smile. Hey, you should know that this isn't your end game!
You can still turn things around and make her your girl. Do you think you can't? Well, if you manage to survive in the friend zone pit, you can totally escape from it. You are a great person, and you just have to make her see that. Before even plotting a plan on how to get out of the friend zone, you have to check if you are actually in it. Let's face it; women are quite trickier to read compared to men. There are some als she's sending that you might misinterpret into thinking that she's not into you or vice versa. To help you assess your current "friend zone" status, we've listed common s that you're entering the friend zone:.
Yes, pet names are cute, and a lot of couples have one for each other. But do make sure that her pet name for you doesn't have "brother," "buddy," "friend," "poo head," or anything alike to that. Have you ever met a guy who, in the right mind, goes with a girl as she shops? Aside from all the other guys in the friend zone, and the boyfriends and husbands who clearly had no other choice, nope, not yet. Women don't bring men to fitting rooms, nor do they let them pick what clothes to buy.
Generally, men hate shopping. So, when you're being her "shopping buddy", she will most probably think that you are just being a good friend who loves carrying things for her. One of the obvious s that she doesn't see you in a romantic light is when she sets you up on a date with another girl. If she likes you, she will not let you know about that friend who's crushing on you.
If you're the guy she calls after a bad break up, or after a stupid argument she had with someone she likes, then you're probably just her guy best friend. She is too comfortable with you that she trusts you in her most vulnerable moments, which could be a bad thing especially when she's not yet aware of your feelings for her.
Actually, even the fact that she cries about some other guy in front you is already a red flag. All hidden feelings come out of hiding when people get drunk. So when you two are drinking together, and there are no drunk kisses or drunk confessions of love, then she probably has nothing to confess. You're her friend when she's sober, and you're still her friend when she's drunk. Nothing more, nothing less. Face it. If you're not the one she's dating, then you are in her friend zone. This also applies when she starts talking to you about guys she wishes would date her.
No girl would ever share something like this to someone she considers to date someday. Girls don't just sort men into who's in the friend zone and who's not without a reason. There's an old saying that says, " There's a reason for everything.
Don't get it wrong, being available for someone is a good thing, but being too available is a different subject. A common mistake guys make is saying yes to all of a girl's requests and invitations. You're probably already her go-to guy, her shopping buddy, her lunch guy, and the one guy friend she can bring as a pretend date to a wedding at last minute's notice.
The always-available guys are usually the ones who earn the biggest spot in the friend zone. Simply because they have been literally always there that they are taken for granted for it. You've been friends for months, even years, yet, she still doesn't know what your intentions are. What usually happens is that men act nice towards women with no hints of sexual or romantic intentions. Men often assume that their kind gestures should speak for their intentions. But in case you weren't informed, most of the women will take any kind gesture from anyone as something platonic.
Sometimes without even knowing, you are putting yourself in the friend zone just by simply thinking that you are not good enough for her. This boils down to a lack of confidence and self-value. You're an amazing guy and yet you're in the friend zone. Unfortunately, just like men, women have a "type" of guy they particularly like.
If you think you're a pretty date-able guy, then you're probably in her friend zone because you're not her type. But don't worry, most of the time, types can be easily copied so observe her likes and dislikes, and be her type! When you find yourself being in the friend zone for so long, it could be that you are scared of losing her in your life. You are uncertain of how she will react if you tell her your feelings, so you choose to keep quiet and hope she'll magically realize how much you love her.
Okay, you're in the friend zone, so, now what? We say, get up and start working your way out there! Every problem has a solution; you just have to find it. Lucky for you, we have all that you need to make her want you. One of the things that most men fail to do is to prioritize themselves. We get it, you're in love, but that's no excuse to come rushing to her whenever she needs you. If you have deadlines to meet or important meetings to attend to at the same time as they "need" you, choose to prioritize yourself.
You are not a hero. You have your own life and own problems to fix, so stop giving her the special treatments. Being too nice is what makes guys fall into the friend zone. Well, most girls see the always-nice-guys as someone who is like a brother to them. We're not saying that you should act like a complete douchebag towards her, but be nice while keeping her interested in you. Being the guy who always carries her bags when she shops will not make you into her boyfriend. The trick is to learn how to make her crave for the nice version of you.
Being predictable is boring. If you don't give her a reason to be thrilled about you, then don't expect her to date you anytime soon. If you end up doing the same things over and over again, she might lose interest in you and push you into her friend zone. You can do that by making her miss you. Limiting your availability and time you spend with her will increase her interest towards you. This will make her realize how much she likes hanging out with you.
Reply to her texts two hours after you've received it, or even refrain from texting her once in a while. This will stir up her ego and will make her wonder why you're not texting her as often as before. Play with her thoughts and emotions a little, just enough to keep her wondering. You have no idea how much girls love a touch of drama in their life. Not sure how to start a conversation with her? Download our texting guide PDF for free. You can also try to ask her out, but make sure that it's out of the ordinary. Go on adventures together or go try exotic foods. Once she realizes that she can't read you, she'll go crazy about you and will always look forward to the next date.
The goal is to change the way she sees you. If she only ever sees you as the guy who has no other social life aside from spending time pleasing her, then you have to do something about that. Date other girls, and show her that you are boyfriend material. Don't be so hung up on the fact that you are in love with your friend. If she hasn't shown you interest yet, then go and find someone who has. Yes, you like her, but since it seems like she's not into you, start dating other girls and make sure she knows it. Jealousy is a powerful thing you can play with! If she sees you with another girl, she's going to want you back.
Focus on improving yourself. Try new things, , hit the gym, or change your wardrobe. Do anything that can help you gain more confidence. The right amount of confidence is so hot on anyone. Being insecure will only sink you deeper into the friend zone. If you're currently in the friend zone and your friend talks to you about the cute guy she met at the bar, don't act jealous. Play it cool and compliment the guy she's talking about. Use some reverse psychology on her and show her that you are confident in yourself and are not afraid or intimidated by anyone.
If you really want to win her, you need to develop a sexual attraction between the two of you. Adding a little touch and occasionally teasing her can make her change the way she looks at you. Be the nice guy but be flirty sometimes. One of the reasons why men are put in the friend zone is because they fail to show their sexuality. Women, most of the time, withdraw from men who are not sexually open. So if you want to get out of the friend zone, show her that you are capable of being sexual. You can do this by gently touching her arm when you talk to each other or come up with a good reason to take her hand.
Read her palm and drop hints of what you want to happen. Trace the lines of her palm and say some pickup lines like "Oh, it says you think I'm hot" or something similar to that. Don't underestimate these little things. They spark sexual attraction and can help you move from being "just friends" to being a potential boyfriend.How to go from friend zone to relationship
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