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If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Jakarta and a dating guide then you have come to the right place. This is a truly massive city, one of the biggest in the world, and if you are a tourist or expat it can be very overwhelming. You know there are a lot of single Jakarta girls out there, but you may not know the best places to try to pick them up. We will start off with the best places to meet girls near you in the great singles nightlife you can find around town. Then the conversation will move on to day game, although day game might not be as easy here as in some other cities.
Table of Contents. Online dating is the quickest and easiest way to meet girls and find fast hook ups in this day and age so we will of course be covering that topic. Once we get through with talking about where to pick up girls the dating guide for Jakarta will begin. There are plenty of nice restaurants, bars, lounges, and day date ideas around the city. At the end we will briefly mention things like logistics, how to plan your stay, and even talk about the dating culture in Indonesia. Understanding that will really help to improve your chances of getting laid.
Many locals out there may prefer reading this post in Bahasa Indonesia at this link. We always like to start off with the nightlife because we figure most guys who end up on this are looking for good singles bars or nightclubs to hook up with sexy Jakarta girls. There is definitely no lack of singles nightlife here, even if you may have heard otherwise.
Pretty much all travel blogs out there will be telling you to stay in South or Central Jakarta and luckily the majority of clubs and pick up bars are in these areas. There are a couple of good nightclubs in North Kota but most of your options are condensed in the Southern part of the city. If your goal is to hook up with Jakarta girls that is definitely where you will want to stay. It will make it a lot easier to meet women from all over the city, including suburbs like Tangerang and Bekasi. There are plenty of nightclubs and singles bars to pick up girls in South Jakarta, currently some of the best are:.
In Central you are also going to find many good bars and clubs. This would probably be the most convenient area for you to stay, though we will get more into that later. To pick up some sexy ladies of the night you could visit these nightclubs:. We have removed Immigrant at Plaza Indonesia from the list as it also closed in February Expect a new club to open in its place shortly. A couple of good but expensive rooftop lounges that are great for picking up hot women in Jakarta are Skye and Cloud.
Then there are four good bars that would not only be good for picking up but also would make for great date spots:. But if you are staying in the South or Central area you have many options which are just as good close by. There is also Crown located in Western Kota, this would be the most popular club that is close to Tangerang. We will be covering this more in the dating culture section, but the majority of the single Jakarta women you meet are going to be Muslim and very religious.
Most also will not speak any English, or if they do know a little bit they will have no confidence to actually have a conversation with a foreigner. In many ways this city looks and feels like Manila , it is huge, has bad traffic, dirty streets, and even the women will look relatively similar. In the Philippines day game is great, the people are happy go lucky and you can walk up to any girl and have a decent chance of getting her . Many speak English pretty well and many also love foreign men. While plenty of Indonesian women also have an interest in dating foreign men they are much more shy and conservative.
If you do want to give it a go try to meet girls in Jakarta malls, just like in the Philippines. Pretty much all of the best malls will be in the Central and South areas, and the nicest would be:. Those would be the best spots for day game near the area where you are likely to stay. Now to our last section of this guide on the where to meet Jakarta girls, online dating. ly we were talking about how many of the women near you are very shy and conservative, which is definitely a true statement. They may not show any skin when they walk around town, but behind closed doors when none of their friends or family are around things can change quickly.
Indonesian Cupid is the best dating site in the country and a very easy way to meet women in Jakarta who are interested in dating or hooking up. Take any of your Indonesian Cupid dates to the spots we mention next, be a gentleman, and you have a good chance of getting laid.
Now we are moving on to the dating guide, and much like with the day game options you really do not need to over think it when it comes to the best date spots in Jakarta. Keep it simple, most of this city looks dirty and like it is falling apart. Then you have massive shopping malls that are like palaces with air conditioning, nice restaurants, cafes, bars, and movie theaters. If you want to wine and dine a girl here bring her to a nice place, and the malls we listed above as pick up spots are also your best options.
They will all have many different dining options, and usually the top floors are filled with places to eat. If you wanted some specific Jakarta bars and restaurants for a date you can try:. Indonesian women also love to sing, take a Jakarta girl on a karaoke date and it will make for a very enjoyable night for them. If you wanted some day date options you could head up to Old Town Kota Tua in the Northern part of the city.
This is a fun area with many different activities, cafes, and restaurants. Many girls would have gone there as a kid but may not have made it back for a few years, if you bring them there it could really brighten their day. More likely they will bring shorts and a t-shirt, remember they are quite conservative by nature. For a longer day date you could head to the Thousand Islands from Marina Ancol, though they take a few hours to get to. Or if you want a weekend getaway inviting Jakarta girls to Bali will almost assuredly get a reply of yes.
We touched on this already a few times but it really is important for you to understand the Indonesian dating culture and how that plays out in Jakarta. Add in the not speaking English well and feeling shy or ashamed to speak to westerners because of it and the dating culture here can be a bit hard to figure out.
Some may just want to have a western friend to chat with, some may want to take selfies to show off on their Instagram, and other Jakarta girls will want to hook up with foreign men. Nightlife and online dating will definitely be your best options. Why is the singles nightlife so good here? Because if a girl is out in a bar or club late in the evening the odds of her being very conservative and religious are reduced drastically. And when using Indonesian Cupid it is also a lot easier to figure out who is who.
You will never always know, but you can get a pretty good grasp on what is going on. Be a gentleman, be respectful, speak slowly and with small words that they are likely to understand. If your goal is to get laid then be a little more aggressive as the night goes on and invite them back to your place. If you want a quick casual hook up you can find it here. If you want a long term relationship you can easily find that as well.
Remember how earlier we mentioned that some of the nightclubs and bars will have prostitutes in them, well you may also encounter that when online dating too so keep that in mind. Now that we have fully covered the best places to meet girls in Jakarta and given a full dating guide lets also briefly do some quick travel talk to finish things off. If you Google any of these spots you will notice the addresses are really long and hard to decipher. You can order a car or motorbike taxi to pick you up at any time, and if you put in any of the spots listed here they will be marked by the GPS.
It can be a bit difficult communicating with drivers, try to use the in app chat option and Google Translate if you are struggling. This is the nicest area of town where most of the nightlife is located, and plenty of date spots as well. If you wanted to get some alcohol for your room any of the grocery stores on the bottom floor of the malls will sell beer and wine. Smaller markets around town are unlikely to have any, or if they have beer it might be non alcoholic. If you get sick of the traffic and want to try a smaller more laid back town Semarang can be a lot of fun for single men.
That is all this dating guide has to offer. There are more than enough pick up bars to meet single women and date spots here then you will need. Contact lots of girls near you on Indonesian Cupid and invite them to any of the spots we listed and if you put in the effort good things should come your way.
That wraps up our best places to meet Jakarta girls with a dating guide, hope you enjoy your time. Hi, I wanted to know where I should stay in Jakarta for a few days. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Last updated on April 4th, If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Jakarta and a dating guide then you have come to the right place.Meet single girls near me
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