What to do when my boyfriend breaks up with me

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I understand the intensity of the sorrow, the hurt, the betrayal, and the panic you feel if your boyfriend or girlfriend has just broken up with you. So, first things first, I want to tell you that it is possible to get back with the one you love. Then they go online and try to find advice on getting an ex back after a breakup. There are other pretty good ones out there and then there are some bad ones that suggest gimmicky, manipulative techniques to use after when your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you.

Some of them suggest magic texts to get your ex back in an instant. You probably already know this even if you want to believe otherwise in your frustration and desperation, but there are no magic texts that will get your ex back. Because if your ex can be gotten back that quickly then they could be taken away again as easily as well!

You see, though you are most likely shocked that you have been broken up with, your ex has probably been considering this for a decent amount of time. Keep reading. It is highly unlikely, to the point of being almost a universal law, that your response will make your now-ex change their mind. Not only does this show strength, high value as a person, and that you are a mature person, but it also shows that you care enough about them to remove yourself from their life if that is what they believe they want. Sometimes in life it looks like you are losing when you are actually winning and that is how I want you to see this breakup.

It might not seem like you are doing anything at all, but you are actually using the most powerful technique in your arsenal. What this also does is to prevent you from reassuring your ex that the breakup was the right choice. This opens the door more quickly to them questioning their decision of tossing aside the relationship they had with you. By not chasing them, you prevent them from moving further away from you emotionally or in terms of attraction. Which will be something else for them to chew on as they contemplate things during your noted absence — and rest assured, it will be noted.

Even if you handled being dumped poorly, start over! Back off and give your ex space now. It might take weeks, months, or even years in some cases and I know that you want to hear that it will be overnight. But since this person has pulled the trigger on your relationship and ended it, you have to let them come to you in the first month or two.

You have to let them come to you and during this time of waiting you allow them to wonder about you, to miss you, to admire your strength, and to doubt their decision of leaving you. And over time, the space you give them compounds and helps you get them back. The odds are actually in your favor when you get out of contact with your ex. My Emergency Breakup Kit expands on this and provides more sophisticated strategies that work to get your ex back.

June 29, June 29, May 21, May 21, April 27, May 28, Coach Lee helps people get their ex back after a breakup. He developed The Emergency Breakup Kit , a powerful guide to winning back an ex. My boyfriend or girlfriend just dumped me! What do I do or say? Related Posts. About Coach Lee Coach Lee helps people get their ex back after a breakup. One sec before you go! Articles on dating relationships, getting an ex back after a break up, and content to help you experience the best in your relationships.

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What To Do When Your Boyfriend (Or Girlfriend) Breaks Up With You