Added: Kaylee Deford - Date: 24.10.2021 23:25 - Views: 31289 - Clicks: 8566
How do you know when God tells you to let go of someone? That is a common question that godly couples all over the world ask themselves. Discerning whether you are called to let go of someone or not can be emotional, stressful, and disappointing. And the longer you wait, the more painful it gets. There are always clear s God is telling you to let go of someone if the relationship is not ordained by Him. Whenever God tells you to let go of someone, he will show you with very subtle s in the beginning. Oftentimes through something as simple as your gut feeling and intuition. Yes, you and me we both have an intuition, whose primary job is to keep us from harm.
And I know that to some people that might sound very vague and strange. However, it is not. When you accept Christ as Savior, the Holy Spirit comes to live in your heart and guides you through life. He is the one that helps you discern right from wrong and connect to God on a personal level. And the more connected you are to Him, the easier it becomes to discern if God put someone in your life or not.
Therefore, if you have a feeling that something is off with your boyfriend and do not have peace about the relationship, then trust that feeling. Trust that God is leading you in this situation and giving you subtle s to move on. But take heart. When you let go and let God write your love story you allow Him to give you His best for you. Boundaries are very important in a relationship. They protect your well-being and serve as a measuring tool for respect. If your boyfriend crosses your boundaries every time the two of you are together and it makes you feel uncomfortable, then that is how you know when God is telling you to let go of someone.
Instead, you want to be in a relationship where you feel like yourself and like you are being heard. And yes, letting go of someone you love is heartbreaking at worse, but that is still not as dangerous as losing yourself. Meaning you and your man should feel like you are best friends and enjoying your time together. Maybe not all the time, but most of it. And I would argue that if you are not having fun, then you are unequally yoked. Yes ladies you can be unequally yoked, even if both of you are Christians. Maybe because you are not attracted to each other physically, mentally, or emotionally.
Maybe because you have nothing in commons every time you meet there is little to talk about. Or maybe because you have different values and now most of your hangouts end in arguments. All of these reasons, may be a that is telling you to let go of a relationship. Because the truth is, God will send you a man that you enjoy spending time with. And even though the relationship may not be perfect, it will feel easy and loving and fun!
So, if you feel like these are s god is telling you to move on then you have to break things off. That way you make space for the right guy to come into your life. Be honest with yourself. Feeling anxious, distrustful, and overwhelmed are not the emotions that describe love. And if that is how you are feeling in your current relationship then you wan to rethink that. When you meet the one God has for you then you will feel at peace, loved, and aligned in your relationship.
However, if you constantly feel stressed then it simply means he is not the one. A relationship that is a constant source of anxiety is not good for you and definitely not what God intended for you. So, truly ask yourself if you are more in love with the idea of who he could be then who he really is and if that is worth your mental health. Remember that God is always speaking to you. Sometimes he will speak through very subtle s such as feelings and emotions.
And sometimes he will use very obvious s, such as people or situations. I am a man of 46 years of age. And I am married. We have three kids with my wife. My wife had told me that. God is sending her back to her ex boy friend we are both Christians. And she prays a lot but we have so many problems in our marriage.
Once she told me that its her who made life to be like this because she is in wrong relationship. And is showing her …. We have agreed to let her move on and but its not nice at all to me even her she is crying but she loves her ex boy friend. We are still together but it stressful to me. Because they have communication with her ex boy friend but does not want to move in to him and leave.
What stresses me more I have to take care of her and look after kids since she does not have strength sometimes. And she does not have feelings for me anymore. What can I do to let her go because when I ask her to go she says that she wants to move to her place first so that can meet her ex boy friend in a rightful manner not to go to his house.
What must I do to this situation?? I am so stressed!!! My girlfriend and I have decided to take a break in our relationship. We have both tried to set boundaries and both keep crossing the line. We have tried other things to help us but this magnetic force is very strong. Our love is very strong for each but we just want to be better Christians and walk with god together. I am sorry you both are Experian such overwhelming heart ache.. I believe you are doing the right thing by giving her the support she needs.
However if it was the will of God for her to chase after a boyfriend it would not be this complicated for her.. Put your faith and trust in God and he will move in ways you can only imagine to turn the situation around.. Trust God, have faith and know he is working for your highest good.. My husband after 18 years has decided to end our marriage.
I keep thinking of this story in the Bible. Do not be afraid. As he took a few more steps, he took his eyes off of Christ, noticing the wind and rough waters. He slowly began to sink. I hope that helps. He has plans for us…. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.
You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. Thanks for this My boyfriend and I really love God and want to please him in our relationship. Pls is it a I should leave him? God asked me to end a relationship i was into… This gentleman loves God so much and we dated for almost six years unfortunately he was married to amoslim and i thought it was God asking me to be with him.
We lost communication and we broke up… Am still hurt broken and wondering because whatever this man told me, is what God tells me… I felt that closeness because he always told me what God wanted from me and indeed God had first talked to so when he tells me, it was just confirmation…..
How do describe such a relationship….. I met this man when I was desperately in need of a relationship. He seemed very nice a concerned about my well being. And I really felt like the relationship was from God. We are both Christians and we are trying to serve God rightly. The problem here is that I was told that he is not the one for me by 2 different prophets.When god wants you to let go of someone
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